9/21/14
100 views! Thanks! ;)
OMG AGAIN! Thank you so everybody for taking me from 51 views to 100 views in about 2 days! I hope you love my posts and keep coming back! I really appreciate the support, likes, and comments! I'll be blogging more soon! ;)
9/19/14
51 and counting and thanks to my fans! ;)
OMG Thank you SO much for the 51 views and counting! This blog has been posting along with 1,000's (maybe more) other blogs so 50 views in about half a week is Awesome! I'll soon be posting pages and more so make sure to check back! But if you don't have the time, you can subscribe to my blog to instantly get an email every time I post. ;)
9/18/14
Friendships destroyed over blogging together
Friendships destroyed by blogging are never easy. What usually happens is that 2 or more friends decide they should blog together, but have NO idea what they're in for. Usually when you start blogging, you find it some sort of professional business where your friends are now just "co-workers" trying make ends meat at the Krusty Krab (But with slightly different personalities). You have one, ready to blog, to have fun and try to succeed and makes sure you join in. And then you have the other (MUCH happier than Squidward), but lacks passion to do very much at all, even the things they love and start saying how they like "the finer things" (LOL XD). But one day one decides that something else going on in their everyday life is now interfering with their "work life". They decide that they may want to ward away some people or things, and not give them a specific reason because they feel they have too much pride for that. The other is left wondering for a little while until the one who "warded them away" says it was you did something and I'm tired of you, then says it was because I needed to cut myself off to clear my mind pores or whatever and that is why they didn't tell you anything at all and wouldn't bother to say "not right now", and then state that they were afraid you would delete their blog or post nasty and rude things about them on the internet.
When it comes to an accusation like that, their should be a moment in their head that might have been the meanest thing they've ever said to someone, Especially to someone who has not them purposely, or showed any intention. And yes, tis is one of the meanest things you can say to someone in general telling them they thought you would destroy their property, ruin what they've worked so long and hard for, AND THEN start telling people they were most likely going to do all those things and maybe even more. That truly is without a doubt one of the worst things you could EVER tell someone. That's like an adult telling a 5 year old that they shouldn't touch their own stuff because the parents spent so much time looking for a toy that they could completely disinfect even though there is almost No reason whatever, and that they are expected to ruin anything because it's not that they're toddlers, it's because they're just naturally awful people like that.
And yet another seemingly growing issue is the whole "Pride" game where one isn't playing it at all and wants to fix things while the other says "I don't need you" or "You should just get new friends because I don't care". People (Even good friends) don't seem to realize that that whole "shake it off" persona is Very transparent and all you end up with is first 1 lost friend, then another lost friend, then another lost friend, and another and another and another until they're telling almost all their friends "I don't need you" or "I don't even know why we were friends in the first place because you're rude or stupid or ugly" and things of that sort. The point is that if they play this game often, it will be like playing Solitaire. The game nicknamed "The game for the lonely" because it requires only one person and gets you almost nowhere. The point is that blogging with friends is NOT a good idea and I would stay as far away from it as possible! Trust me, you don't need the artificial drama (Meaning someone created it thinking that it would be "Like Totally Awesome or Something!", the staying up late at night because you're usually the only one posting, having to find cool info VERY often to entertain viewers, and then hearing you didn't do much when you decide it's time for a break OR that after a hard days work, SOMETHING just has to be changed because it is considered that it Stinks or just isn't right in general. It makes you wonder if some people think blogging is all there is to life when their are other people, trees, fresh oxygen, and more living things outside (And your computer is NOT a living thing). The last thing we need is to hear about more people fighting and getting upset with each other to find out they WERE friends, and then found out they want to "cyberbully" in "retaliation". But the truth to this whole story is that when one friend gets stuck up, that means they're afraid the other is going to take advantage of them. And when one friend gives a flustered answer or no answer at all and then ignores you, it's out of their love of the "drama". And when either (And yes, this does happen often) begins saying bad things about you at anytime or trash talk things related to you and what you do or like to do and how you do it, it's usually a very clear indicator that they are for some reason jealous. Everybody has their own talents and unique way of doing things, but some people think they want someone else's talents or unique ways of doing things. On the bright side, they strive for new things and aren't afraid to try something different, but on the Not So bright side, they let go of things and question them too quickly. They feel that "it's just not different enough" or feel the need to have to choose a certain thing from a pile of the exact same things. In this case, they aren't really considered "obsessive compulsive", but strive for the for what's "better". This doesn't necessarily mean that you have come to the conclusion that that's the problem. The most common thing is that they make a friend, be friends with them for a little while, and then "strive for something new" or develop a jealousy for something one does that the other wishes they could do. But true friends that understand each other are charismatic towards one another don't feel the need to not like them as much because of envy or "striving for something new", they give each other Positive encouragement rather than saying how they need to fix how they do things or do them differently. But usually you don't see 5year olds blogging together. Well, blogging in general. What that means is that 2 people who really do feel mature and blog like a grown up person with lots of success, not fight with the other blogger and get jealous when they do a good job. You 2 are blogging together, both of you should be telling each other about how your blog is shared and you 2's success is shared.
When it comes to an accusation like that, their should be a moment in their head that might have been the meanest thing they've ever said to someone, Especially to someone who has not them purposely, or showed any intention. And yes, tis is one of the meanest things you can say to someone in general telling them they thought you would destroy their property, ruin what they've worked so long and hard for, AND THEN start telling people they were most likely going to do all those things and maybe even more. That truly is without a doubt one of the worst things you could EVER tell someone. That's like an adult telling a 5 year old that they shouldn't touch their own stuff because the parents spent so much time looking for a toy that they could completely disinfect even though there is almost No reason whatever, and that they are expected to ruin anything because it's not that they're toddlers, it's because they're just naturally awful people like that.
And yet another seemingly growing issue is the whole "Pride" game where one isn't playing it at all and wants to fix things while the other says "I don't need you" or "You should just get new friends because I don't care". People (Even good friends) don't seem to realize that that whole "shake it off" persona is Very transparent and all you end up with is first 1 lost friend, then another lost friend, then another lost friend, and another and another and another until they're telling almost all their friends "I don't need you" or "I don't even know why we were friends in the first place because you're rude or stupid or ugly" and things of that sort. The point is that if they play this game often, it will be like playing Solitaire. The game nicknamed "The game for the lonely" because it requires only one person and gets you almost nowhere. The point is that blogging with friends is NOT a good idea and I would stay as far away from it as possible! Trust me, you don't need the artificial drama (Meaning someone created it thinking that it would be "Like Totally Awesome or Something!", the staying up late at night because you're usually the only one posting, having to find cool info VERY often to entertain viewers, and then hearing you didn't do much when you decide it's time for a break OR that after a hard days work, SOMETHING just has to be changed because it is considered that it Stinks or just isn't right in general. It makes you wonder if some people think blogging is all there is to life when their are other people, trees, fresh oxygen, and more living things outside (And your computer is NOT a living thing). The last thing we need is to hear about more people fighting and getting upset with each other to find out they WERE friends, and then found out they want to "cyberbully" in "retaliation". But the truth to this whole story is that when one friend gets stuck up, that means they're afraid the other is going to take advantage of them. And when one friend gives a flustered answer or no answer at all and then ignores you, it's out of their love of the "drama". And when either (And yes, this does happen often) begins saying bad things about you at anytime or trash talk things related to you and what you do or like to do and how you do it, it's usually a very clear indicator that they are for some reason jealous. Everybody has their own talents and unique way of doing things, but some people think they want someone else's talents or unique ways of doing things. On the bright side, they strive for new things and aren't afraid to try something different, but on the Not So bright side, they let go of things and question them too quickly. They feel that "it's just not different enough" or feel the need to have to choose a certain thing from a pile of the exact same things. In this case, they aren't really considered "obsessive compulsive", but strive for the for what's "better". This doesn't necessarily mean that you have come to the conclusion that that's the problem. The most common thing is that they make a friend, be friends with them for a little while, and then "strive for something new" or develop a jealousy for something one does that the other wishes they could do. But true friends that understand each other are charismatic towards one another don't feel the need to not like them as much because of envy or "striving for something new", they give each other Positive encouragement rather than saying how they need to fix how they do things or do them differently. But usually you don't see 5year olds blogging together. Well, blogging in general. What that means is that 2 people who really do feel mature and blog like a grown up person with lots of success, not fight with the other blogger and get jealous when they do a good job. You 2 are blogging together, both of you should be telling each other about how your blog is shared and you 2's success is shared.
9/17/14
Blog "under construction"
Here's a quick list of changes I'm making to "yougetit543.BlogSpot.com";
- Adding new gadgets
- Re-model to make it my own
- The title will now be "You get it?; for besties!"
- Hoping to post links
- May start pages
- Going to try to talk about more than just friendships (But still related)
"You get it?" brief description
Hey everybody! This is Lauren LA and this is my new blog "You get it?"! You know how you figure out why your friendship is going down-hill with a friend or you can't figure out why someone feels the need to say you're rude to someone right in front of you, or you hear stories about it (That's what I'm referring too), "You get it?" is about what I've figured out over time hearing about my friends problems or what people think is wrong with the world. It's not an over-dramatic blog about trying to change the world one person at a time, it's pretty much a brief(ish) sort of thing where I talk about whatever whenever when I think I've figured something out I guess. I'll try to do some re-modeling soon, but for now I think I'll just stick to posting. ;)
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